And I must say that there are some interesting points here.įor example, he talks about the hero instinct that all men have. According to Bauer, the goal of this section is to teach you how men think, what makes them tick, etc. Part one is divided into 11 chapters, dedicated to helping women understand a man’s perspective. James Bauer book, His Secret Obsession Part 1

It’s his passion, and if you can tap into that, you can get him to do anything you want. It’s what motivates him to do everything he does for the woman he’s in love with. The main point that Bauer makes is that a man’s secret obsession is what drives him. The first half of the book is all about helping women understand a man’s perspective, while the second half focuses on how to use this knowledge to your advantage. His Secret Obsession by James Bauer is divided into two parts, consisting of 17 chapters in total. Once you know what that is, you can use it to your advantage. The key to understanding a man is knowing his secret obsession. Now that you have a clear idea of what I’m talking about, let’s focus on the real deal how do we use this knowledge to our advantage? So it’s time we turn the tables. And, he can be easily seduced into buying you gifts or taking you out for expensive dinners just to spend time with you. He’s driven by desire and mostly ignored by the woman herself because she doesn’t understand the extent of his infatuation with her (yet). He wants to be around her as much as possible and wants to impress her. The most common is the admiration stage, where a man simply admires everything about her – her beauty, her brains, her wit, and so on. There are different levels of obsession that men can have. And it’s not just a phase he goes through it can last for years. That is precisely what a man has for a woman he considers to be beautiful and intriguing. Obsession is a strong, persistent idea or emotion that someone has about someone or something. And use him to your advantage so that you can plant the seeds of his future with you. This article is about His Secret Obsession- a guide for women, designed to help understand a man’s perspective. Yes, there are actually men out there who will do anything for women basically, because they’re infatuated with them.

I never knew!!!” But in all seriousness, it’s true men do in fact have an obsession. What if I told you that he has a secret obsession? What would you do? You’re probably thinking what all women think, “How could I have been so blind? Wow…what a revelation.

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